hey,, sure thing. i signed up about 6 months ago, entered the site with low expectations but kept an open mind. what worked: i spent time crafting a genuine intro — i mentioned my values, my lifestyle, what i’m really looking for (not just “looking for love” but “looking for partnership & growth”). that seemed to attract someone who resonated. we chatted regularly for weeks before any meeting, no rush. when i finally visited her country, we had already built trust. clarification: patience made all the difference — if i’d rushed, who knows how it’d turn out.