I joined adult dating sites in my 40s after divorce. It felt awkward — what do you even write? I started small: honest bio, one clear photo, and “looking for connection, not drama.”
The first few chats were cringe. Some people went straight to sexting, others disappeared. Then I met someone who actually wanted to talk. We laughed, shared music, and eventually met.
Here’s my tip: treat adult dating like regular dating with boundaries. Know what you want and communicate it clearly. Avoid anyone who pressures you.
Don’t rush intimacy. The right people respect your pace.
It’s not about age or boldness — it’s about being brave enough to try again.