[Just_JohnDoe]

Yes—and no. I dated a woman from Thailand for two years, and she told me, “I like you, not your passport.” That meant more to me than anything.
A lot of guys think being American automatically makes them attractive overseas. Sometimes it does—people are curious. But once that curiosity fades, what’s left? Your character.
Foreign women often like the idea of adventure, openness, and communication style of American men. But they dislike when someone acts entitled or doesn’t try to understand their background.
Our relationship ended because of distance, but I’ll never forget how honest that experience made me. So yes, some foreign girls like American men—but only the ones who make them feel respected, not conquered

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I joined one out of loneliness during a bad marriage. It started as curiosity but turned into a double life. The secrecy was thrilling at first — encrypted chats, code names, hotel meetups. But guilt grew faster than excitement.
I met a woman who was also married. We promised not to get attached, but of course, we did. It ended painfully when her husband found out.
Was it worth it? For the lessons, maybe. For the hurt, no.
If you’re unhappy, fix the cause, not the symptoms. Affair sites make you feel seen temporarily, but they don’t solve emptiness. They just borrow happiness you’ll have to repay later.

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