[Luke.Ward]

hey guys,. curious if any male sugar babies here can relate… what are the unexpected challenges of being a male sugar baby? what’s easier than you thought, what’s harder? thanks.

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[torres_1]

hey, i’m 29 and started as a male sugar baby about 6 months ago. one big challenge: the roles feel upside down sometimes. people expect me to be “successful” even though i’m in the “dependency” position.

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[Isaaccc]

hello,, 32 here. for me the hardest part was managing expectations. matched with a woman who was very generous, but she also expected me to be available on very short notice, travel frequently, and socially “look the part”.

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[Chriss]

hey all… i started as a male sugar baby last year and one surprise: it was emotionally tougher than i thought. when things end or fade, because the arrangement was based on convenience, it hit me harder than a normal breakup.

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[David__1Lee11]

Honestly, being a male sugar baby is harder than most think. You constantly balance pride and dependence. I got into it while in college, thinking it’d be easy money. My sugar mom was kind, but the emotional power dynamic hit me harder than expected.
She controlled when we met, how we talked, and even who I followed online. At first, I ignored it — “she’s helping me,” I thought. But over time, I felt smaller, less like myself.
When I finally walked away, she called me ungrateful. Maybe I was. But I wanted to build my own life.
If you’re considering it — know your limits. Don’t lose your identity for convenience. The gifts fade, but self-respect doesn’t.
Now I’m hustling on my own, and weirdly enough, I’ve never felt richer.

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